The Difference Between a PSYCHIC and a MEDIUM
A lot of people think psychics and mediums are the same thing. Actually, there's a big difference! Psychics use their intuition and clairs to get energetic impressions from people, events, situations etc and usually focus on past, present or potential future outcomes. No one can tell you the future, by the way, because we all have free will to change future outcomes.
A medium does all of those things that a psychic does, but also specifically connects with spirits, angels, guides, and can communicate with those who have passed away.
My favorite part of the mediumship experience so far has been learning that if I ask for further info about something, or clarity of a visual I am being shown, oftentimes the answer pops up or the visual gets zoomed in on in my mind's eye. Sometimes it happens before I can get the question out, because it's all energy and it occurs with no time delay. It amazes me every single time!!
In order to be an evidential medium, I need to present information to you in a reading that you can validate to be true - something there's no way I would know, and usually it makes absolutely no sense to me. I've gotten everything from oatmeal, roses, and tattoos to specific vehicles, pies, and full descriptions of their house!
Other things that are used as evidence - I'll feel compelled to say a phrase that you had shared with them as an inside joke, or they might play me their favorite song in my head. Sometimes they share childhood memories or appear wearing their favorite color (top to bottom in some cases so I don't miss it!) so you can identify them by my description. It's different every time.
They have also dragged my attention to the interior of your house to show me something that's there, since they passed, to prove they are watching over you and can see what's happening in your life. This is an important piece of the reading that I will always ask them to bring forward for you, because it can be tremendously powerful to help you move forward in your healing process by knowing you are not alone, and that they are there, watching.
Every reading is different, and each spirit is just as unique on the other side as they were here. They can be very talkative or very quiet, and the connection to their energy can feel strong or weak, depending on many factors. If you are skeptical, or in the early stages of grief, it can also be a bit harder to connect sometimes.
But I always go into my readings with the intention set that you be gifted some type of information in the session that will enable you to leave the session with an increased belief, trust and knowing that your loved one has in fact connected with you, and that you receive messages of love and healing for the best and highest good of all concerned.